The United States has many traditions when it comes to weddings. Knowing this it makes sense that other, older countries would have their own set of accepted occurrences when it comes to tying two people together. Traditional Russian weddings can be difficult to organize but for Russian brides the extra effort is worth every moment in the end.
There is no best man or maid of honor in a traditional Russian wedding. These people are called by the Russian word “svideteli” or witnesses instead. The wedding party itself can last for as little as two days but sometimes goes for even longer!
Something that remains much the same with Russian and American weddings is planning time. A traditional Russian marriage can take as little as one month to plan or it can take as many as six. The registration site in Russia is called a “Zag” while here we usually get our licenses in courthouses.
A bride who is seeking a traditional Russian wedding should look forward to gifts of bread and salt. These edible blessings come from both parents. They are considered to be a symbol of health, prosperity, and longevity.
This bread is even more important to the couple itself. Besides the blessings of their parents the bread is also a symbol of power and sharing. They each take a bite of this bread and whoever has taken the biggest bite is assumed to be the head of the family. This is a visual prop to allow them to see the give and take of marriage.
Toasts are an important part of American marriages. They are tools in which individuals who are close to the couple can share. In traditional Russian weddings this is no different. The speaker stands and once they are finished everyone takes a drink and cheers.
In a traditional Russian wedding after the toasted is made the glasses are thrown on the ground. It is believe to be an omen of good luck when the glass shatters on impact. But if the pieces of the glass draw blood from anyone standing around this can be a sign of bad luck. It’s a lesson for the newlyweds as well. You always have to take care.
Bride stealing is an ancient tradition in many customs. It teaches a certain lesson about due diligence and watching out for what is most important. In Russian tradition they call is Kasha Novelty and it is exactly what it sounds like!
The groom will have to keep a sharp eye out during his wedding celebrations. Friends and family members will more than likely try to set up lavish plans in order to steal his bride. If she’s stolen he will have to pay a ransom to get her back.
There are a great many things you have to remember if you are planning to join the growing group of Russian brides. Above all the rest, though, you have to keep in mind that you are about to get married. This should be one of the happiest days of your life no matter how you celebrate it. So get out there and be happy.
